Title: Pray for my enemies?
Author: Heather Monkmeyer
Scripture: Matthew 5: 43-48
Devotional:
This is a difficult passage for me. I am not used to having “enemies,” really. Sure, there have always been people I don’t enjoy or those who have views with which I don’t align. But I didn’t feel like we were enemies, just not each other’s favorite people. Lately, though, the world seems scarier, more pointedly hateful and polarized. I may be someone’s enemy simply because of how I live my life, how I vote, or for what I believe. And suddenly, that feels consequential. How do I pray for the people who seem to stand against what is truthful, compassionate, loving, and redemptive?
The last line of this passage is an admonition to be perfect as God is perfect, which, to me, is jarring. How could I possibly be perfect like God? I cannot, but maybe Jesus was imploring his listeners to sink into their innermost being where they meet God, who is perfect Love. There is an expansive place in all of us where our hearts can open, where we can hold all in God’s generous compassion and love. The only way I can ever love my enemies is by holding them in the space where God dwells in me. Tell me if you have another way.
I cannot say that I always love my enemies. But there is a hopeful place in me that desires to rise above the anger and pettiness, the fear and all that would bind me and keep me small. God, at first, I really don’t want to pray for my enemies. I really don’t want to love them. But I also don’t want to be consumed with anger, hatred, or fear. I want to be free to love, free to forgive, free to be an agent of your healing and kindness in the world. I bring this heaviness to you and ask for you to hold it with me and transform it into something productive, compassionate, and good. Amen.
Devotional Prayer:
Breath Prayer of Love and Compassion
Allow your breath prayer to become a prayer of love and compassion.
As you breathe in, receive God’s gift of unending and expansive love for all of creation.
As your breath expands your lungs, reflect on the ways in which love expands your heart.
As you breathe out, “exhale” love to those for whom you care. Breathe out to family and friends for five breaths.
In the next five breaths, expand your circle of awareness to include the people with whom you have challenging relationships.
In the next five breaths, expand again and breathe love onto your community.
Keep expanding your circle of awareness to include all peoples and, finally, all the earth.
Notice what is inspired in you when you practice extending love and care to the entire Earth community.
This is from Water, Wind, Earth and Fire: the Christian Practice of Praying with the Elements by
Christine Valters Paintner.